tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-336724383142950699.post418174208693479360..comments2023-11-05T04:29:35.416-08:00Comments on CounterSnippets: The Aggressor Sets the Terms of EngagementFidelbogenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11727779008823649682noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-336724383142950699.post-32012956125880980682013-02-17T20:43:28.847-08:002013-02-17T20:43:28.847-08:00We are free to act as we will and vary our approac...We are free to act as we will and vary our approaches. But the aggressor still sets the terms, meaning that the aggressor licenses in return whatever he dishes out.Fidelbogenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11727779008823649682noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-336724383142950699.post-75496339981767520622013-02-17T09:05:16.310-08:002013-02-17T09:05:16.310-08:00I agree. But only powerless victims react that wa...I agree. But only powerless victims react that way, fighting fire with fire. If a child hit me, I could hit him back with the same force he managed to muster(which wouldn´t be much). But I could also refrain from hitting him and teach him better ways to express whatever it is he wants to express.<br /><br />I´m not saying I´ve never paid back feminists with their own currency. I have, many times. I´m just saying the rest of us could also think of ways to be better than them (shouldn´t be too hard).José Pablo Bolañoshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15424861404410634756noreply@blogger.com